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Perfect Partner, But Bad in Bed

June 13th, 2010

This week the Advice Panel tackled the issue of how to deal with a partner who is wonderful in every way, except in the bedroom.  It can take an awful lot of searching to find someone that you are compatible with, so how important is it if you don’t seem to be sexually compatible?  Watch what the men and women of the Advice Panel have to say on this delicate topic.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem believes that there are two main categories for problems in the bedroom.  Find out which one is a deal breaker and which one has the potential to be resolved.

Jack from Brooklyn explains very clearly what it means to be sexually incompatible and what this means for your relationship.

Nando of Nandoism.com gives an academy award worthy performance as he explains exactly what bad sex is like while using a classic scene from a classic film.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, gives an honest assessment of just where sex falls in the scheme of things when it’s the one road block in an otherwise perfect relationship.

David Black of Social Masters gives some great insight on how intimacy in communication can help you improve the physical intimacy in your relationship.

Kelly of Notes From The Dating Trenches explains some steps that you can take to try to turns things around if you find yourself in this “perfect partner, bad in bed” situation.

What do you think? Is there hope when your perfect partner turns out to be bad in bed?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

Types of Women That Men Should Avoid – Video

June 1st, 2010

As a follow up to “types of men that women should avoid,” we put together our lists of types of women that men should avoid.  Hear what the advice panel vloggers have to say about the characteristics of women that indicate that a she is the type that you don’t want to date.  There are just not enough good character traits that can possibly make up for the types of women the we believe should send men running in the other direction.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem surveyed men on Twitter to get this top three list of the women that they most want to avoid dating.

Kate AKA the Lost Plum gives very funny insights into this question. Don’t let her humor fool you though, her list is packed with traits that scream “Run!”

Jack from Brooklyn shares his experience and provides a very complete list of women that should have you walking away. Some of these are not so obvious on the surface, so you may want to take notes on this one.

David of Social Masters lists the top 3 types of women that he advises men to avoid dating.  He also defines the “female loser” and how to identify her.

Kelly of Notes from the Dating Trenches gives the inside scoop on the 5 types of women that should send men running.  She also shares some special insight on big city dating and the L.A. dating scene.

Kim Hess the Divorce Guru runs down the list of bad girls that men should avoid.  Not only are these the type of women that men should beware of, but they are often the same type of women that men are attracted to despite the warning signs.

Nando of Nandoism.com takes a humorous approach in answering this question.

What are your thoughts? Men, are there types of women you avoid? Ladies, any tips you’d like to share on the topic?  Please share your thoughts and tips in the comments section.

Types of Men You Should Run From – Video

May 18th, 2010

There are some men that woman want to get to know better and better as they discover more about him.  Sometimes women want to know more because they like what they are learning about a man, and sometimes they want to decide if the things that they don’t like about a man are outweighed by other good qualities that he may have.  Of course there are also those types of men that have characteristics that should make you want to call it quits as soon as they are discovered.  Here’s what the Advice Panel had to say about the types of men that should have women reaching for their running shoes.


Tina of LuvemOrLeavem lists the 3 most common types of men that indicate that a relationship is on a downward spiral whether the woman has already realized it or not.

British blogger David Black of Social Masters explains 4 types of men that women should avoid dating.

Jack from Brooklyn identifies 3 types of men that are not suitable for a long term relationship.  Rather than running though, Jack explains why you may just want to back away slowly.

Kim Hess, Divorce Guru, has quite a list of men that you should run from as well as a few true stories about these types of men.  You’ll laugh and learn as she works her way through the types of men that you shouldn’t date.

Kate aka The Lost Plum isn’t one to make blanket statements about certain types of men, but she has some very solid criteria that women should use when trying to decide whether to run to or from a man.

Kelly of Notes From the Dating Trenches lets the ladies in on the 5 types of men that they should avoid dating no matter what her “type” is.

Nando of Nandoism.com gives a short and simple answer with just one criteria for the type of man you should run from.

So what do you think? Is there a certain type of man that sets off warning bells for you?  Please share in our comments section.


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