Advice Panel Videos – Relationship Help

He Said I Love You – Now What? Video

July 11th, 2010

When a man tells you he loves you, the feelings these words elicit can range from pure bliss to utter confusion. What should you do when you’re at that in between stage where you’re not ready to say “I love you too” but you want to keep the relationship going because you think you could feel that way given more time? See what the Advice Panel vloggers have to say about how to handle these three little words even if they make you feel more awkward than blissful.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem shares some “do’s and don’ts” for how to handle that declaration of love when you’re not quite ready to make your own declaration.

Nando of Nandoism.com shares some practical and funny advice on how to handle this situation. He will also reveal his own fall back plan for when these words are met with silence and a quick change of subject.

Special guest Jovian of Word Up Haay shares how to approach these words for every possible scenario. Whether you share his feelings, are unsure, or will never share his feelings, her advice will have you covered.

Special guest Tinzley of And You Wanna See My Feet explains the need to examine the how, when and why of these words being said. Follow her advice and you will take control of the situation rather than merely reacting.

David Black of Social Masters explains why these words would make you want to freak out. Follow his advice and you’ll understand how can avoid creating drama and remain calm.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, gives some very replies that you can give to smooth over the potential awkwardness of not being ready to respond to “I love you” with “I love you too.”

What do you think? How do you handle I love you when you’re not ready to say it back? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

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Introducing Your Partner to Judgmental Friends – Video

June 29th, 2010

Most people have at least one judgmental friend. When it’s time to introduce a boyfriend or girlfriend to these friends, it’s tempting to postpone these introductions for as long as possible. The Advice Panel vloggers share some tips on how and when you should introduce your partner to your friends to help this meeting go as smoothly as possible.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem shares three main steps to make sure that both you and your friends are prepared for them to meet your boyfriend. If you are properly prepared, then you and your boyfriend should be able to survive the introductions to even the most judgmental of friends.

Kelly of Notes from the Dating Trenches outlines four important tips to consider before introducing a boyfriend to highly judgmental friends. Those judgmental friends won’t be able to put a damper on your happiness if you consider Kelly’s 4 points first.

David of Social Masters shares his thoughts on these judgmental friends and what role they should play in your life and your relationships.

Radio host and Divorce Guru, Kim Hess, has 2 main tips for how to deal with this situation. One of her relationship tips is especially important for avoiding long term problems between your significant other and your friends, so pay close attention.

Nando of Nandoism.com has some very funny examples of what your friends might not like about your boyfriend or girlfriend. He also adds some sound advice on evaluating the role that these friends should play in your love life.

What do you think is the best way to handle introducing a boyfriend or girlfriend to judgmental friends? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

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Perfect Partner, But Bad in Bed

June 13th, 2010

This week the Advice Panel tackled the issue of how to deal with a partner who is wonderful in every way, except in the bedroom. It can take an awful lot of searching to find someone that you are compatible with, so how important is it if you don’t seem to be sexually compatible? Watch what the men and women of the Advice Panel have to say on this delicate topic.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem believes that there are two main categories for problems in the bedroom. Find out which one is a deal breaker and which one has the potential to be resolved.

Jack from Brooklyn explains very clearly what it means to be sexually incompatible and what this means for your relationship.

Nando of Nandoism.com gives an academy award worthy performance as he explains exactly what bad sex is like while using a classic scene from a classic film.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, gives an honest assessment of just where sex falls in the scheme of things when it’s the one road block in an otherwise perfect relationship.

David Black of Social Masters gives some great insight on how intimacy in communication can help you improve the physical intimacy in your relationship.

Kelly of Notes From The Dating Trenches explains some steps that you can take to try to turns things around if you find yourself in this “perfect partner, bad in bed” situation.