Advice Panel Videos - Relationship Help http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos Relationship Advice Video Blog Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:53:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 en hourly 1 Why Won’t He Marry Me? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/03/why-wont-he-marry-me-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/03/why-wont-he-marry-me-video/#comments Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:53:58 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=356 We all know a couple who has been dating for a long time but hasn’t gotten married despite frequent begging and pleading from the female.  The men in these relationships often seem perfectly happy with the woman that they’re dating, and often have no major complaints her.  So why do these men continue to date these women who obviously want to marry them without delivering that much anticipated proposal?

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem has women pose this love dilemma to her more than any other.  Under all the excuses for not  proposing she strongly believes that there are only two real reasons why these men don’t pop the question.

Jack from Brooklyn explains why dating tends to be linear for women and circular for men.  He gives a very straight reply as to why these men aren’t looking to walk down the aisle, and he shares the truth about those men that are labeled as “commitment-phobes”.

Nando of Nandoism.com believes that this question about marriage takes a backwards look at the issue and he sets the ladies straight about what they should really be asking themselves.  He also shares a perspective on marriage that he thinks may get him lots of hate mail, but our vote for Nando will always be ‘Luvem.”

What are your thoughts on this topic? Please share in the comment section.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/03/why-wont-he-marry-me-video/feed/ 1 Who Should Pay for a Date? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/who-should-pay-for-a-date-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/who-should-pay-for-a-date-video/#comments Wed, 24 Feb 2010 18:24:32 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=343 In the past it was pretty standard that when it was time to pay the check on a date it would go straight to the man. These days things aren’t as clear cut. Ask any server in most restaurants, and they’ll tell you that they often place the check in the middle of the table because it’s not always clear who will be paying the bill or if the couple will be splitting the bill. So how do you decide who will pay the bill? And with money getting tighter, at what point do you start splitting those expenses? Take a listen to what the advice panel has to say.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem has one main rule when it comes to paying on the first date.  She also weighs in on how it should work when those dating expenses start to pile up.

Abiola of AbiolaTV has five rules when it comes to deciding who should pay for a date.  Come see what February cover girl Abiola has to say about paying and making your date feel treasured.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, shares he thoughts about paying for a date as she gets ready to go out on a date. Hear what Kim expects from her own dates as well as what she thinks men in general should do about paying for those dates.

Nando of Nandoism.com gets input from his loyal Twitter followers to answer this question. He also lets shares how he will handle this issue on his upcoming date.

So what do you think? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/who-should-pay-for-a-date-video/feed/ 2 Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/should-women-ask-guy-out-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/should-women-ask-guy-out-video/#comments Fri, 05 Feb 2010 21:57:56 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=333 Society has gotten used to seeing women accomplishing things that were only attempted by men in the past,  but there are still double standards especially in the world of relationships.  One topic that often crops up when discussing the role of women in the world of dating is if women should ask men for dates.  The Advice Panel vloggers have very different opinions on whether women should take this step or not.  Watch and find out which vloggers think women should ask men for dates, and which ones say “no way.”

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem gives an opinion that involves toads and princes and how they each need to be handled.

Abiola of AbiolaTV.com loves to be pursued.  Find out what she thinks about women asking men for dates and if this is something she would ever do.

Mike of MikeTheMasterDater.com gives the guy’s perspective on how men view women who want to do the asking.  Does he think doing the asking puts women in a stronger or a weaker position?  Watch and find out.

Special guest vlogger Vanae of Vanae.com has no doubts about the answer to this question.  She also has a treat for viewers to celebrate her 20,000 V-star subscribers.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, explains one of the major side effects of asking a man out and how this can affect the relationship long term.

Nando of Nandoism.com has 3 great reasons that he shares with the ladies.  Take a look to find out if his reasons are for or against women asking out men.

What do you think? The vloggers have never been so divided on an issue.  Please share in the comments section whether or not you think women should ask out men.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/02/should-women-ask-guy-out-video/feed/ 1 Why Do Single Women Go After Married Men? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/why-do-single-women-go-after-married-men-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/why-do-single-women-go-after-married-men-video/#comments Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:19:25 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=222 For many single women there is no type of man that is more appealing than the type that belongs to another woman. So just why are these women so drawn to married men or men in serious relationships rather than men that are single and available? Take a look at what the Advice Panel video bloggers believe is the motivating force behind these women who are drawn to these man that are already taken.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem.com explains why women who like the challenge of men that aren’t available are like crazed shoppers in a toy store.

Mike of MikeTheMasterDater.com starts out with some coffee shop wisdom, then moves on to bacon and moral fiber as he takes a very entertaining look at this question.

Abiola of AbiolaTV shares some goddess wisdom as she consults with the author of Girl, Leave Her Man Alone which takes an in depth look at single women who chase after married men.

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru and David of EnergyTalkRadio examine the Catch22 of how women view married men.  They want a man who can commit, and although they belong to someone else, these men have proven that they are willing to commit.

School is in as Nando of Nandoism.com reveals the real reason behind all the excuses that women make for pursuing these married men.

What do you think? Please share your thoughts about single women who chase married men in the comments section.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/why-do-single-women-go-after-married-men-video/feed/ 3 Behind the Scenes of Speed Dating http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/246/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/246/#comments Sat, 30 Jan 2010 01:43:53 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/246/ Special Live Coverage of the world’s largest speed dating event.

Intro from Nando

Nando lets us know what to expect at the event.

Ladies, Check Out Nick

Tweet us @adviceMaven if you want to meet Nick.

Stephanie & Sharon

Don’t Forget The LuvemOrLeavem Mugs

Speed Daters Report on the Drinks

Will the Orange Shirt Bring Dating Success?

More Daters & More Mugs

Hoping for Some Birthday Luck!

Undercover dater writing a blog on dating faux paux

Speed Dating Rules

Steve’s Advice- Be Yourself

Goodbye- and recap

Nando’s Video Recap

Hope you enjoyed our behind the scenes look at speed dating.

Let us know if this is something you’ll ever try (and if we can

send a camera crew with you).

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/246/feed/ 2 Relationships with Big Age Gaps – Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/relationship-age-gap-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/relationship-age-gap-video/#comments Sun, 10 Jan 2010 18:52:41 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=205 How many years difference is too many years difference when it comes to a romantic relationship? There are those that say “age doesn’t matter when you’re in love,” but most people still have an age difference in mind that will make them say “ick, that’s too much of a difference.” See what the advice panel has to say about how age differences affect a relationship and if there really is such a thing as too big of an age gap.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem has a definite number in mind when it comes to the age gap that will start to cause problems for couples who want a long term relationship.

Divorce Guru Kim Hess and EnergyTalkRadio’s David Trudrung offer some very entertaining tops on how you can decide if your relationship has a big enough age gap to make people say “ewww.”

Abiola of AbiolaTV gives some advice to consenting adults about whether or not age difference matters in the world of dating and love.

Mike of MikeTheMasterDater bears all (not literally) when he shares his personal stories about dating both younger women and cougars.

Nando of Nandoism.com gives viewers three key questions  to ask themselves when evaluating a relationship with a big age gap.

What is your opinion about relationships with big age gaps?  Is there a set number of years that is too many years?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/01/relationship-age-gap-video/feed/ 1 Tiger Woods and Infidelity – Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/tiger-woods-infidelity-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/tiger-woods-infidelity-video/#comments Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:12:40 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=186 The Tiger Woods infidelity scandal should be just one more story about a popular celebrity who couldn’t stay faithful to his wife.  Of course with Tiger’s good guy image, his going into hiding and the sheer number of mistresses, the Advice Panel vloggers had to weigh in on this scandal that has grown even bigger than anything we expected.  Take a look at what our relationship vloggers have to say about what may turn out to be the biggest sex scandal of the decade.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem takes a look at the rumors and theories to arrive at a simple answer to “Why Tiger Cheated.”

Kim Hess, the Divorce Guru, takes an optimistic and humorous approach about what Tiger is doing right during this scandal

Watch as Nando of Nandoism coins a new term, “Chris Browned” while explaining why we should all leave Tiger alone

Mike the Master Dater answers the burning question “Is Tiger Woods Damaged Goods?” and explains how Tiger could learn a lesson from Bill Clinton

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/tiger-woods-infidelity-video/feed/ 1 How Soon is Too Soon to Be Sexual? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/when-to-have-sex/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/when-to-have-sex/#comments Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:53:59 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=175 The decision of how soon to have sex in a relationship is usually a simple decision for a man but much more complicated for a woman.  Generally, women want to wait for the point in the relationship where they know the man well enough to feel that there is a bond between them and they want to feel confident that the man is in the relationship for more than just sex.  So how soon is too soon before a relationship becomes sexual?  Is there a set amount of time that is acceptable and are there shorter periods of time that are always unacceptable?  Take a look at what the Advice Panel has to say about how women should approach this complicated question.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem explains why it is fine for a women to take her time making this decision

Divorce Guru, Kim Hess and David Trudrung of Energy Talk Radio approach the topic using to 90/10 rule

Abiola of AbiolaTV tackles the topic in front of a room full of appreciative New Yorkers.  Warning — this video will make you blush!

Nando of Nandoism.com explains why “too soon” varies from person to person and how you can know what timing is best for your situation

Mike of MikeTheMasterDater.com lays it on the line and explains why a woman should approach this decision like she is approaching a used car salesman.

What do you think? How soon is too soon?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/12/when-to-have-sex/feed/ 1 Does Size Matter? Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/11/does-size-matter-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/11/does-size-matter-video/#comments Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:29:57 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=167 When it comes to making a woman happy in the bedroom, one of the most debated questions is “Does Size Matter?” The two most popular replies seem to be “It depends on how you use what you have” and at the other end of the spectrum are those that answer “Of course it does, yes, yes yes!” Of course there is no right or wrong answer to this question, it is a matter of opinion, and both sides of this debate feel that their opinion is right.

See what the Advice Panel (and some everyday New Yorkers) has to say about their raciest topic yet. For the most part this topic is addressed in a fairly tame manner, but if you are uncomfortable about any reference to sex, then this may not be the topic for you to watch.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem shares some stats on the topic

Abiola of Planet Abiola takes the topic to the streets of New York, even Santa gives an opinion on this “naughty” topic

Nando of Nandoism shares some wisdom and a very personal, very funny story

Kim Hess the Divorce Guru has no doubts about this size issue as she shares her opinion from the studio at EnergyTalkRadio

Mike of MikeTheMasterDater.com gives a blush worthy reply that covers everything from aesthetics to stimulation

So what do you think? Does size matter or is size truly in the eyes of the beholder?  Please share your opinion in the comments section!

]]> http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/11/does-size-matter-video/feed/ 0 Marrying Young – Video http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/11/married-young-video/ http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2009/11/married-young-video/#comments Sun, 01 Nov 2009 21:56:42 +0000 admin http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/?p=156 Couples are on average getting married later than they did in previous generations.  According to the last U.S. Census the average age for a woman to marry was 25.1 years and for men it was 26.7 years.  This is a big change from the days when it was common to get married right out of high school.  Perhaps this is why when we think of couples getting married very young we tend to think of couples from long ago or couples dealing with unexpected pregnancy.

But what about the modern day couples who want to get married because they feel that they are ready to take this next big step in their relationship?  Does getting married young hurt your chances of having a successful marriage?  Take a look at what the advice panel has to see about marrying young.

Tina from LuvemOrLeavem

Nando from Nandoism.com

Sarah from NoRicksAllowed

Abiola from PlanetAbiola

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