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		<title>Can I Trust Him? Video</title>
		<link>http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/08/can-i-trust-him-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Aug 2010 21:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[can i trust him]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week, the Advice Panel tackles the issue of trust.  The original question that we answered read something like this &#8220;I adore him.  He&#8217;s everything I could ever want in a man, but I&#8217;ve been hurt so many times in the past.  How do I know if I can trust him?&#8221;  Trust is the foundation [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week, the Advice Panel tackles the issue of trust.  The original question that we answered read something like this &#8220;I adore him.  He&#8217;s everything I could ever want in a man, but I&#8217;ve been hurt so many times in the past.  How do I know if I can trust him?&#8221;  Trust is the foundation of all good relationships, both romantic and non-romantic.  Of course when it comes to romantic relationships we are often especially cautious about placing our trust in someone because we don&#8217;t want to get our hearts broken by placing our trust in someone who doesn&#8217;t deserve that trust.  Here are the answers from our vloggers about how to decide if it is time to place your trust in someone, which ultimately is the only way to have a solid lasting relationship.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> discusses the precautions that you should take when it comes to places your trust in a man.  She also has some special advice for women who are hoping to never have a relationship cause them pain again.</p>
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<p>Tinzley from <a href="http://www.menwomendatingfromtinzley.com/">And You Wanna See My Feet</a> shares three important tips on how you can find it in your heart to trust again.  Follow her tips for taking a good look at yourself and you&#8217;ll be on your way to learning how to trust once more.</p>
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<p>David of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog/">Social Masters</a> takes a very insightful look at why trusting is so difficult for anyone who has been hurt before.  He also shares some great advice for how to move past that old hurt and start trusting in a new relationship.</p>
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<p>Kelly of <a href="http://www.kellyseal.com">Notes from the Dating Trenches</a> shares 4 questions that you can ask yourself to determine if your boyfriend or girlfriend is worthy of your trust.  You&#8217;ll have a much better idea of whether the problem is their trustworthiness or your fear of being hurt again once you work through these questions.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> Do you have your own special checklist to decide if it&#8217;s time to trust someone?</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Help &#8211; He&#8217;s Fantasizing About a Threesome</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 20:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to admit that when Advice Panel member Nando mentioned that we should tackle the topic of threesomes, I was anything but eager to proceed with it.  First of all, these types of topics make me blush profusely, and second everyone who follows me knows that I&#8217;m too traditional to agree with something like [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to admit that when Advice Panel member Nando mentioned that we should tackle the topic of threesomes, I was anything but eager to proceed with it.  First of all, these types of topics make me blush profusely, and second everyone who follows me knows that I&#8217;m too traditional to agree with something like this.  When I looked back at some of our more controversial love dilemmas, I did find that women mentioned more than a few times not knowing how to handle the situation when their man mentions that he finds the idea of a threesome exciting.</p>
<p>At that point I had to admit that it looked like this blush worthy topic needed to be covered by our vloggers no matter how much I wanted to hide from it.  So take a look at what our vloggers had to say about this topic and go ahead and leave a comment if you agree, disagree, or just want to throw in your two cents.</p>
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<p>My take, AKA the <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> take, on this topic is two fold.  First, decide if he&#8217;s really asking you to help him turn fantasy into reality.  Second, think about what you really want.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> opens with a hilarious dramatization of the two possible reactions that people have when it comes to the topic of threesomes.  He also discusses the difference between open relationships and threesomes and shares some tips for those who are adventurous enough to be considering adding a third party to their love life.</p>
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<p>David of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> goes through how to evaluate what you want and what he wants when it comes to dealing with a guy who keeps talking about a threesome.  He also gives some warnings about the impact of adding a third person to your relationship even if it&#8217;s only temporary.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> Please share your thoughts on this blush worthy topic.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>He&#8217;s Lost Interest in Sex &#8211; Should You Worry?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 14:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do when your man has lost interest in sex?  Is it just a phase he&#8217;s going through or is it time to worry?  These questions are especially troubling when it is still early in your relationship.  See how the Advice Panel relationship vloggers tackle this question and learn when you should be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you do when your man has lost interest in sex?  Is it just a phase he&#8217;s going through or is it time to worry?  These questions are especially troubling when it is still early in your relationship.  See how the Advice Panel relationship vloggers tackle this question and learn when you should be concerned and how you should handle his lack of interest.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem.com</a> explains what this loss of interest means for your future with this man.  She also goes through the differences between how men and women view the physical aspect of a relationship and why this behavior may be a signal that this is the beginning of the end for this romance.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> goes through a list of possible reasons why he may not be feeling the passion that range from practical to hilarious.    He also has some very sound advice for how you can prepare to address this difficult issue with your man.</p>
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<p>Kelly of Notes from the Dating Trenches addresses some possible reasons for why the sparks may no longer be flying during this stage when couples usually can&#8217;t keep their hands off each other.  Hear what she has to say about why and when you should be concerned.</p>
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<p>David Black of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> shares the male perspective on why your man may be losing interest in sex, how to handle this situation, and why you should deal with it sooner rather than later.</p>
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<p>Kate AKA the <a href="http://www.lostplum.com">Lost Plum</a> shares some funny and sexy tips on how to try to spice things up when his interest in sex starts to dwindle.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> How soon into a relationship should you worry if he&#8217;s losing interest in sex?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>He Said I Love You &#8211; Now What? Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 21:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://luvemorleavem.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/True-Love.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-994" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Saying I love you" src="http://luvemorleavem.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/True-Love-300x173.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="138" /></a> When a man tells you he loves you, the feelings these words elicit can range from pure bliss to utter confusion.  What should you do when you're at that in between stage where you're not ready to say "I love you too" but you want to keep the relationship going because you think you could feel that way given more time?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When a man tells you he loves you, the feelings these words elicit can range from pure bliss to utter confusion.  What should you do when you&#8217;re at that in between stage where you&#8217;re not ready to say &#8220;I love you too&#8221; but you want to keep the relationship going because you think you could feel that way given more time?  See what the Advice Panel vloggers have to say about how to handle these three little words even if they make you feel more awkward than blissful.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2010/04/19/saying-i-love-you/">LuvemOrLeavem</a> shares some &#8220;do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts&#8221; for how to handle that declaration of love when you&#8217;re not quite ready to make your own declaration.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> shares some practical and funny advice on how to handle this situation.  He will also reveal his own fall back plan for when these words are met with silence and a quick change of subject.</p>
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<p>Special guest Jovian of <a href="http://jovianzayne.wordpress.com/">Word Up Haay</a> shares how to approach these words for every possible scenario.  Whether you share his feelings, are unsure, or will never share his feelings, her advice will have you covered.</p>
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<p>Special guest Tinzley of <a href="http://www.menwomendatingfromtinzley.com/">And You Wanna See My Feet</a> explains the need to examine the <em>how</em>, <em>when</em> and <em>why</em> of these words being said.  Follow her advice and you will take control of the situation rather than merely reacting.</p>
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<p>David Black of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> explains why these words would make you want to freak out.  Follow his advice and you&#8217;ll understand how can avoid creating drama and remain calm.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess, the <a href="http://kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a>, gives some very replies that you can give to smooth over the potential awkwardness of not being ready to respond to &#8220;I love you&#8221; with &#8220;I love you too.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong>  How do you handle I love you when you&#8217;re not ready to say it back? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Introducing Your Partner to Judgmental Friends &#8211; Video</title>
		<link>http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/2010/06/introduce-boyfriend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 17:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/introduce-boyfriend-video.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-471" title="introduce boyfriend video" src="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/relationshipvideos/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/introduce-boyfriend-video.jpg" alt="" width="234" height="150" /></a> Most people have at least one judgmental friend.  When it's time to introduce a boyfriend or girlfriend to these friends, it's tempting to postpone these introductions for as long as possible.  The Advice Panel vloggers share some tips on how and when you should introduce your partner to your friends to help this meeting go as smoothly as possible.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most people have at least one judgmental friend.  When it&#8217;s time to introduce a boyfriend or girlfriend to these friends, it&#8217;s tempting to postpone these introductions for as long as possible.  The Advice Panel vloggers share some tips on how and when you should introduce your partner to your friends to help this meeting go as smoothly as possible.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> shares three main steps to make sure that both you and your friends are prepared for them to meet your boyfriend.  If you are properly prepared, then you and your boyfriend should be able to survive the introductions to even the most judgmental of friends.</p>
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<p>Kelly of <a href="http://www.kellyseal.com">Notes from the Dating Trenches</a> outlines four important tips to consider before introducing a boyfriend to highly judgmental friends.  Those judgmental friends won&#8217;t be able to put a damper on your happiness if you consider Kelly&#8217;s 4 points first.</p>
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<p>David of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> shares his thoughts on these judgmental friends and what role they should play in your life and your relationships.</p>
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<p>Radio host and <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a>, Kim Hess, has 2 main tips for how to deal with this situation.  One of her relationship tips is especially important for avoiding long term problems between your significant other and your friends, so pay close attention.</p>
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<p>Nando of<a href="http://nandoism.com"> Nandoism.com</a> has some very funny examples of what your friends might not like about your boyfriend or girlfriend.  He also adds some sound advice on evaluating the role that these friends should play in your love life.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think</strong> is the best way to handle introducing a boyfriend or girlfriend to judgmental friends?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Perfect Partner, But Bad in Bed</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 17:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[sexual incompatibility]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week the Advice Panel tackled the issue of how to deal with a partner who is wonderful in every way, except in the bedroom.  It can take an awful lot of searching to find someone that you are compatible with, so how important is it if you don&#8217;t seem to be sexually compatible?  Watch [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week the Advice Panel tackled the issue of how to deal with a partner who is wonderful in every way, except in the bedroom.  It can take an awful lot of searching to find someone that you are compatible with, so how important is it if you don&#8217;t seem to be sexually compatible?  Watch what the men and women of the Advice Panel have to say on this delicate topic.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> believes that there are two main categories for problems in the bedroom.  Find out which one is a deal breaker and which one has the potential to be resolved.</p>
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<p><a href="http://jackfrombkln.com/">Jack from Brooklyn</a> explains very clearly what it means to be sexually incompatible and what this means for your relationship.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> gives an academy award worthy performance as he explains exactly what bad sex is like while using a classic scene from a classic film.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess, <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">the Divorce Guru</a>, gives an honest assessment of just where sex falls in the scheme of things when it&#8217;s the one road block in an otherwise perfect relationship.</p>
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<p>David Black of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> gives some great insight on how intimacy in communication can help you improve the physical intimacy in your relationship.</p>
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<p>Kelly of <a href="http://www.kellyseal.com">Notes From The Dating Trenches</a> explains some steps that you can take to try to turns things around if you find yourself in this &#8220;perfect partner, bad in bed&#8221; situation.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> Is there hope when your perfect partner turns out to be bad in bed?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Types of Women That Men Should Avoid &#8211; Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 18:14:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a follow up to &#8220;types of men that women should avoid,&#8221; we put together our lists of types of women that men should avoid.  Hear what the advice panel vloggers have to say about the characteristics of women that indicate that a she is the type that you don&#8217;t want to date.  There are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a follow up to &#8220;types of men that women should avoid,&#8221; we put together our lists of types of women that men should avoid.  Hear what the advice panel vloggers have to say about the characteristics of women that indicate that a she is the type that you don&#8217;t want to date.  There are just not enough good character traits that can possibly make up for the types of women the we believe should send men running in the other direction.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> surveyed men on Twitter to get this top three list of the women that they most want to avoid dating.</p>
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<p>Kate AKA the <a href="http://www.lostplum.com">Lost Plum</a> gives very funny insights into this question.  Don&#8217;t let her humor fool you though, her list is packed with traits that scream &#8220;Run!&#8221;</p>
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<p><a href="http://jackfrombkln.com/">Jack from Brooklyn</a> shares his experience and provides a very complete list of women that should have you walking away.  Some of these are not so obvious on the surface, so you may want to take notes on this one.</p>
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<p>David of <a href="http://www.social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> lists the top 3 types of women that he advises men to avoid dating.  He also defines the &#8220;female loser&#8221; and how to identify her.</p>
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<p>Kelly of <a href="http://www.kellyseal.com">Notes from the Dating Trenches</a> gives the inside scoop on the 5 types of women that should send men running.  She also shares some special insight on big city dating and the L.A. dating scene.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess the <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a> runs down the list of bad girls that men should avoid.  Not only are these the type of women that men should beware of, but they are often the same type of women that men are attracted to despite the warning signs.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> takes a humorous approach in answering this question.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What are your thoughts?</strong> Men, are there types of women you avoid? Ladies, any tips you&#8217;d like to share on the topic?  Please share your thoughts and tips in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Types of Men You Should Run From &#8211; Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 13:54:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are some men that woman want to get to know better and better as they discover more about him.  Sometimes women want to know more because they like what they are learning about a man, and sometimes they want to decide if the things that they don&#8217;t like about a man are outweighed by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are some men that woman want to get to know better and better as they discover more about him.  Sometimes women want to know more because they like what they are learning about a man, and sometimes they want to decide if the things that they don&#8217;t like about a man are outweighed by other good qualities that he may have.  Of course there are also those types of men that have characteristics that should make you want to call it quits as soon as they are discovered.  Here&#8217;s what the Advice Panel had to say about the types of men that should have women reaching for their running shoes.</p>
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Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem</a> lists the 3 most common types of men that indicate that a relationship is on a downward spiral whether the woman has already realized it or not.</p>
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<p>British blogger David Black of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> explains 4 types of men that women should avoid dating.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.JackFromBkln.com">Jack from Brooklyn</a> identifies 3 types of men that are not suitable for a long term relationship.  Rather than running though, Jack explains why you may just want to back away slowly.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess, <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a>, has quite a list of men that you should run from as well as a few true stories about these types of men.  You&#8217;ll laugh and learn as she works her way through the types of men that you shouldn&#8217;t date.</p>
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<p>Kate aka <a href="http://www.lostplum.com">The Lost Plum</a> isn&#8217;t one to make blanket statements about certain types of men, but she has some very solid criteria that women should use when trying to decide whether to run to or from a man.</p>
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<p>Kelly of <a href="http://www.kellyseal.com">Notes From the Dating Trenches</a> lets the ladies in on the 5 types of men that they should avoid dating no matter what her &#8220;type&#8221; is.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nanadoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> gives a short and simple answer with just one criteria for the type of man you should run from.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>So what do you think?</strong> Is there a certain type of man that sets off warning bells for you?  Please share in our comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Friends with Benefits Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 19:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The line between boyfriend or girlfriend or friend of the opposite sex used to be determined by whether or not you were sleeping with that person.  Friends with Benefits is a type of relationship that  challenges this notion by claiming that you can have a friend that you sleep with in between romantic relationships.   The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The line between boyfriend or girlfriend or friend of the opposite sex used to be determined by whether or not you were sleeping with that person.  Friends with Benefits is a type of relationship that  challenges this notion by claiming that you can have a friend that you sleep with in between romantic relationships.   The idea is that there are no emotional ties with this &#8220;friend,&#8221; it is purely physical, and yet if either of you does enter a committed relationship you will go back to being &#8220;just friends.&#8221;  Is this an ideal arrangement, or is the notion that a Friends with Benefits relationship can work just wishful thinking.  Here&#8217;s what the Advice Panel has to say:</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://LuvemOrLeavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrLeavem.com</a> takes a look at just what happens to a friendship when it becomes physical.  She also shares what she would tell her friends if they were considering getting involved in a Friends with Benefits situation.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess the <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a> explains why she has recently changed her views about Friends with Benefits arrangements.  She also explains the role that biology plays when we become physical with someone.</p>
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<p>Kelly Seal of Notes from the Dating Trenches presents 4 questions to ask yourself to determine if a Friends with Benefits relationship if right for you.  She also reveals whether or not she would personally consider entering into this type of relationship.</p>
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<p>David Black of <a href="http://social-masters.com/blog">Social Masters</a> explains the upside and the downside of these relationships.  He also takes a look at how long this type of arrangement can be sustained if you do decide to give friend with benefits a try.</p>
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<p>Abiola of <a href="http://abiola.tv">Abiola.tv</a> has decided that these types of relationships are now a big &#8220;no no&#8221; for her, but that wasn&#8217;t always the case.  She explains the rules for anyone who does want to take a chance on getting overly &#8220;friendly&#8221; with a friend, and she even gets some the beauty shop scoop on how other women feel about these relationships.</p>
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<p><a href="http://jackfrombkln.com/">Jack from Brooklyn</a> explains the 3 flavors of a no strings attached relationship.  How do you know which category you fall into and what are the advantages and disadvantages of each?  You&#8217;ll have to watch to find out.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> Can these relationship work?  Would you ever consider one?  Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Should You Have an Open Relationship? Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 19:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Open relationships and open marriages have been getting a lot of attention as some high profile celebrities have admitted to being in these types of relationships.  People in favor of these relationships often point to the large number of relationships that end in infidelity and propose these open relationships and marriages as a viable alternative to a monogamous relationship.  Of course people who are against these open relationships often question why anyone would bother to commit to a person if they can&#8217;t bring themselves to be monogamous.  Here&#8217;s what the Advice Panel vloggers have to say about this very controversial topic.</p>
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<p>Tina of <a href="http://www.luvemorleavem.com/read.cfm">LuvemOrleavem</a> explains some key differences between marriage and dating and how these differences relate to open marriages.</p>
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<p>Kim Hess, the <a href="http://www.kimhess.com">Divorce Guru</a>, addresses some of the notions about open relationships that raise the biggest objections when people try to decide if this type of relationship is something that they want to try.</p>
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<p>Abiola of <a href="http://www.abiola.tv">AbiolaTV</a> takes the question on the road (and the highway) as she travels to Woodstock, New York.  The divine Ms. A also reveals if she would ever consider an open relationship for herself.</p>
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<p>Nando of <a href="http://www.nandoism.com">Nandoism.com</a> shares some rules about these relationships and takes a look at the pluses that he sees in these relationships.  He also explains ho these relationships should not be confused with &#8220;pulling a Tiger Woods.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Kate aka the <a href="http://www.lostplum.com">Lost Plum</a> explores how communication is crucial for couples considering this type of relationship.  She does believe that there is one particular situation when an open relationship should not be considered and of course you&#8217;ll need to watch to find out just what situation she is talking about.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>So what do you think</strong> about open marriage and relationships?  Do you find them intriguing totally taboo?  Please share your thoughts in the comments section.</p></blockquote>
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