Advice Panel Videos – Relationship Help

Can I Trust Him? Video

August 22nd, 2010

This week, the Advice Panel tackles the issue of trust. The original question that we answered read something like this “I adore him. He’s everything I could ever want in a man, but I’ve been hurt so many times in the past. How do I know if I can trust him?” Trust is the foundation of all good relationships, both romantic and non-romantic. Of course when it comes to romantic relationships we are often especially cautious about placing our trust in someone because we don’t want to get our hearts broken by placing our trust in someone who doesn’t deserve that trust. Here are the answers from our vloggers about how to decide if it is time to place your trust in someone, which ultimately is the only way to have a solid lasting relationship.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem discusses the precautions that you should take when it comes to places your trust in a man. She also has some special advice for women who are hoping to never have a relationship cause them pain again.

Tinzley from And You Wanna See My Feet shares three important tips on how you can find it in your heart to trust again. Follow her tips for taking a good look at yourself and you’ll be on your way to learning how to trust once more.

David of Social Masters takes a very insightful look at why trusting is so difficult for anyone who has been hurt before. He also shares some great advice for how to move past that old hurt and start trusting in a new relationship.

Kelly of Notes from the Dating Trenches shares 4 questions that you can ask yourself to determine if your boyfriend or girlfriend is worthy of your trust. You’ll have a much better idea of whether the problem is their trustworthiness or your fear of being hurt again once you work through these questions.

What do you think? Do you have your own special checklist to decide if it’s time to trust someone?

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Help – He’s Fantasizing About a Threesome

August 11th, 2010

I have to admit that when Advice Panel member Nando mentioned that we should tackle the topic of threesomes, I was anything but eager to proceed with it. First of all, these types of topics make me blush profusely, and second everyone who follows me knows that I’m too traditional to agree with something like this. When I looked back at some of our more controversial love dilemmas, I did find that women mentioned more than a few times not knowing how to handle the situation when their man mentions that he finds the idea of a threesome exciting.

At that point I had to admit that it looked like this blush worthy topic needed to be covered by our vloggers no matter how much I wanted to hide from it. So take a look at what our vloggers had to say about this topic and go ahead and leave a comment if you agree, disagree, or just want to throw in your two cents.

My take, AKA the LuvemOrLeavem take, on this topic is two fold. First, decide if he’s really asking you to help him turn fantasy into reality. Second, think about what you really want.

Nando of Nandoism.com opens with a hilarious dramatization of the two possible reactions that people have when it comes to the topic of threesomes. He also discusses the difference between open relationships and threesomes and shares some tips for those who are adventurous enough to be considering adding a third party to their love life.

David of Social Masters goes through how to evaluate what you want and what he wants when it comes to dealing with a guy who keeps talking about a threesome. He also gives some warnings about the impact of adding a third person to your relationship even if it’s only temporary.

What do you think? Please share your thoughts on this blush worthy topic.

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He’s Lost Interest in Sex – Should You Worry?

July 26th, 2010

What do you do when your man has lost interest in sex? Is it just a phase he’s going through or is it time to worry? These questions are especially troubling when it is still early in your relationship. See how the Advice Panel relationship vloggers tackle this question and learn when you should be concerned and how you should handle his lack of interest.

Tina of LuvemOrLeavem.com explains what this loss of interest means for your future with this man. She also goes through the differences between how men and women view the physical aspect of a relationship and why this behavior may be a signal that this is the beginning of the end for this romance.

Nando of Nandoism.com goes through a list of possible reasons why he may not be feeling the passion that range from practical to hilarious. He also has some very sound advice for how you can prepare to address this difficult issue with your man.

Kelly of Notes from the Dating Trenches addresses some possible reasons for why the sparks may no longer be flying during this stage when couples usually can’t keep their hands off each other. Hear what she has to say about why and when you should be concerned.

David Black of Social Masters shares the male perspective on why your man may be losing interest in sex, how to handle this situation, and why you should deal with it sooner rather than later.

Kate AKA the Lost Plum shares some funny and sexy tips on how to try to spice things up when his interest in sex starts to dwindle.

What do you think? How soon into a relationship should you worry if he’s losing interest in sex? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

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