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how dad treats mom
Posted By: TheSage on: 8/02
Dating > 3 yr |
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so were getting serious and I'm noticing things I never did before, like how his dad sort of looks down at his mom, he never compliments her, always seems to treat her like kind of a servant, get me this, get me that, and acts like he is kind of a king, can't lift a finger, and I always hear that you should see how a guy treats his mom (which is fine) but what about how his dad treats her, what kind of example is that and should I be concerned?
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Voters Comments:
yeah, be concerned, but how does he feel about this, have you ever asked him? why not ask him and see if it's something that bothers him too, okay? I mean, if he doesn't know what you're talking about when you mention it, then really be concerned
-Ronnie 8/03
yep, that's the key, how does he feel about it, but it's hard to believe in 3 yrs you never discussed this with him (or him with you) so discuss it soon
-monica 8/03
Yes, you definitely want to find out if he thinks this kind of behavior is okay; picture yourself in 20 years, as weak as his mom and being treated like that. Then decide if you want your daughters (if you have some someday) to accept a husband who acts that way. Time to bring the subject up with him.
-chococat 8/07
