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no long relationships
Posted By: Forest4Trees on: 2/16
Dating < 6 mo |
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only dated about a month and he tells me he wants to be up-front, he doesn't believe in long relationships, just so I understand. if this is his attitude at the get-go, what do I do?
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Voters Comments:
I say enjoy the moment. at least he was honest. so if you are not going to be satisfied with that, say thanks and good-bye
-Ann2010 2/19
maybe he doesn't believe in long relationships because he hasn't met the right one. maybe you are that one. I say enjoy, see what happens
-lookout8 2/19
He's already drawn a line in the sand for the relationship. He can alwaya fall back on this when you push for a committment. Don't waste your time with him because this isn't going anywhere.
-LadyBunny 2/21
I think you have already answered your own question. the fact that you are on here asking for advice should show you that you really are not ok with this. It does not make you happy. Why are you considering doing something to make some one else happy? Do something because it makes you happy. Other girls may love to be treated like a free prostitute but you seem to have more sense and self respect than to lower yourself to that. Look after yourself and expect respect.
-Erin 2/21
