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No, you may Vote Luvem or Leavem and view all dilemmas and comments without registering. You only need to register if you wish to post anything to the site such as dilemmas, comments/advice and message board posts.

2. Can I post a photo with my dilemma?

Yes.

3. What format should photos be in?

We accept jpg files. Our software will automatically resize your photo if it needs to be adjusted.

4. How should I title my dilemma?

Make sure to use words that included why you are posting your dilemma, such as "won't commit", or "cheating". This will help users find your dilemma.

5. How do I vote?

Click LuvEm or LeavEm. If you are a registered user you may also add comments before clicking LuvEmorLeavem.

6. Can I see how others have voted?

After you submit your vote you will see the percentage of voters that have voted LuvEm or LeavEm.

7. How do I find dilemmas that I interest me?

You can search by age, status of relationship, and key words.

8. How can I view comments about a dilemma I've submitted?

Find your dilemma using search by user name. All of the comments will be listed below your dilemma. You will receive an e-mail before your dilemma expires so that you can view the comments while your dilemma is still active.

9. How long will my dilemma stay posted?

Your dilemma will stay posted for 30 days. When a dilemma is getting ready to expire you will receive an e-mail notifying you of this.

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Click "Renew" next to the dilemma that you wish to renew.

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