Comments on: When Should You Get Married? http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/ Relationship Help, Love Advice Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:21:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Online Dating USA - Ozami Dating http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3456 Online Dating USA - Ozami Dating Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:37:29 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3456 There is no "perfect time" to get married. First of all you have to spend some time with your future wife (or husband), because there are a lot of things you don't observe at your partner, until you're living together with him, and that could bother you. Also, as a man, we need to consider the fact that we will be responsible for paying the bills, and buying food, and all kinds of stuff we need to pay for. And I'm not saying that we have to be the only ones working, but morally speaking, it is our responsibility. because from that point forward, the term "my money" becomes "our money", for both the wife and husband. There is no “perfect time” to get married. First of all you have to spend some time with your future wife (or husband), because there are a lot of things you don’t observe at your partner, until you’re living together with him, and that could bother you. Also, as a man, we need to consider the fact that we will be responsible for paying the bills, and buying food, and all kinds of stuff we need to pay for. And I’m not saying that we have to be the only ones working, but morally speaking, it is our responsibility. because from that point forward, the term “my money” becomes “our money”, for both the wife and husband.

]]> By: cher http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3433 cher Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:08:26 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3433 Askcherlock has given you the Best Blogger award! Please stop by our site and pick up your award. Happy blogging! .-= cher´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.askcherlock.com/?p=1516" rel="nofollow">We Are Honored…</a> =-. Askcherlock has given you the Best Blogger award! Please stop by our site and pick up your award. Happy blogging!
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]]> By: Maria @ Conversations with Moms http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3431 Maria @ Conversations with Moms Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:58:31 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3431 I definitely think that a couples core values should be the same. This is a must. There is nothing wrong with having opposite personalities, it makes it more fun but as long as the values are common. In my case, I got married when both my husband and I were able to support ourselves. Marriage is hard enough already without the stress of added finances. .-= Maria @ Conversations with Moms´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/conversationswithmoms/WXCh/~3/rccohZV_Ks8/" rel="nofollow">Random Tuesday Thoughts</a> =-. I definitely think that a couples core values should be the same. This is a must. There is nothing wrong with having opposite personalities, it makes it more fun but as long as the values are common.

In my case, I got married when both my husband and I were able to support ourselves. Marriage is hard enough already without the stress of added finances.
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]]> By: Dorothy Stahlnecker http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3385 Dorothy Stahlnecker Mon, 09 Nov 2009 00:39:56 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3385 Good thoughts and if only we could get our kids or young adults to think about these things before they say I do.. Dorothy from grammology grammology.com .-= Dorothy Stahlnecker´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.grammology.com/2009/11/08/two-different-kinds-of-family-dinner/" rel="nofollow">Two different kinds of family dinner</a> =-. Good thoughts and if only we could get our kids or young adults to think about these things before they say I do..

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]]> By: Jude http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3275 Jude Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:30:42 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3275 I don't think there will ever be a perfect time for marriage, but I certainly think you should be able to provide for yourself and be independent before you attempt it. .-= Jude´s last blog ..<a href="http://jude8753.com/2009/11/06/is-social-networking-here-to-stay/" rel="nofollow">Is Social Networking Here To Stay?</a> =-. I don’t think there will ever be a perfect time for marriage, but I certainly think you should be able to provide for yourself and be independent before you attempt it.
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]]> By: BK http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3273 BK Fri, 06 Nov 2009 13:37:42 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3273 I agree with you on the point, "if you won’t have the means to support yourselves at the start of the marriage, then this is not the right time to get married." Being able to support yourselves is the minimum. If the couples are in bad financial, they may end up in constant row. As for when is the perfect time, when the financial is settled, anytime should be a perfect time. :) .-= BK´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.symphonyoflove.net/blog/1119/overcoming-challenges-in-life.html" rel="nofollow">Overcoming Challenges in Life</a> =-. I agree with you on the point, “if you won’t have the means to support yourselves at the start of the marriage, then this is not the right time to get married.” Being able to support yourselves is the minimum. If the couples are in bad financial, they may end up in constant row. As for when is the perfect time, when the financial is settled, anytime should be a perfect time. :)
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]]> By: askcherlock http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3265 askcherlock Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:26:52 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3265 I told my kids to wait until they were thirty. One did, the others married a bit earlier but have wonderful relationships. I do think individuals should have time to be single and know how to live independently before getting married. They should also 'sow their oats' (do people still say that?) before committing to a marriage. Get it all out of your system before you reach the altar. I told my kids to wait until they were thirty. One did, the others married a bit earlier but have wonderful relationships. I do think individuals should have time to be single and know how to live independently before getting married. They should also ’sow their oats’ (do people still say that?) before committing to a marriage. Get it all out of your system before you reach the altar.

]]> By: Anne http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3264 Anne Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:11:37 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3264 I think it really depends on the couple. I know many couples who got married too young and then realized they missed out and end up apart. But there are many other couples who get married young and never give it a second thought. I do think that people need to do a certain amount of living before they get married just so they don't spend a lot of time thinking there is something better out there. I think it really depends on the couple. I know many couples who got married too young and then realized they missed out and end up apart. But there are many other couples who get married young and never give it a second thought. I do think that people need to do a certain amount of living before they get married just so they don’t spend a lot of time thinking there is something better out there.

]]> By: Brandy http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3261 Brandy Fri, 06 Nov 2009 00:14:41 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3261 I am not sure if marrying young could be a set up for failure as it works for many, but I do think many will change a lot if they are married too young which can cause issues. Going through a separation right now myself, I have no real advice on what to give for when is the right time to marry as I married my husband after we spent a year together, had a child together and I truly felt it was right. So I think just follow your heart and know your true self before you marry someone. .-= Brandy´s last blog ..<a href="http://happilyblended.com/2009/11/kitten/" rel="nofollow">Name That Kitten</a> =-. I am not sure if marrying young could be a set up for failure as it works for many, but I do think many will change a lot if they are married too young which can cause issues.

Going through a separation right now myself, I have no real advice on what to give for when is the right time to marry as I married my husband after we spent a year together, had a child together and I truly felt it was right. So I think just follow your heart and know your true self before you marry someone.
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]]> By: K http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/11/04/when-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-3259 K Thu, 05 Nov 2009 22:40:46 +0000 http://www.luvemorleavem.com/blog/?p=704#comment-3259 I definitely think you need to be supporting yourself before you get married (or have babies or that matter). Beyond that, I think you should get married when you feel ready. There probably isn't a "right" time for most people. I got married youngish and it worked out (at least so far), but a lot of people end up divorced who get married in their early 20s. .-= K´s last blog ..<a href="http://interstitial-life.blogspot.com/2009/11/boob-tube.html" rel="nofollow">The Boob Tube</a> =-. I definitely think you need to be supporting yourself before you get married (or have babies or that matter).

Beyond that, I think you should get married when you feel ready. There probably isn’t a “right” time for most people. I got married youngish and it worked out (at least so far), but a lot of people end up divorced who get married in their early 20s.
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