Comments on: Could You Forgive a Cheater?

By: Claire

Claire — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 01:25:27 +0000

Well, A cheating partner can be forgiven if he/she admits it. But it is not easy to forget everything, and they should also understand that.

By: save marriage alone guy

save marriage alone guy — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 07:27:47 +0000

Thanks for the tips you’re talking about it so others will know! Definitely will keep in mind. To tell you the truth, took me a while to get it right, you got to bring about the environment that first attracted you both and also avoid a ton of mistakes we all do at first if you want to help fix your marriage

By: Ciara from Counseling Divorce

Ciara from Counseling Divorce — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 04:06:15 +0000

As I have told before on the previous article that affairs are a betrayal of all the things that the relationship is supposed to be about. But I believe that after affair every relationship can be saved if the both side want to save the relationship.
Ciara from Counseling Divorce´s last blog ..Pre-Marital Counseling

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By: Bubu

Bubu — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 12:26:07 +0000

I will not forgive a cheater. Cheater should be dump by all women. If you stay in unhealthy relationship will make you unhappy all the time.

By: nopenisa

nopenisa — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 15:42:14 +0000

love the post thank you.

By: KeHoeff

KeHoeff — Thu, 28 May 2009 21:55:01 +0000

hey this is a very interesting article!

By: luciddreamangel

luciddreamangel — Thu, 28 May 2009 21:44:18 +0000

I think once you break the trust in a relationship with cheating, you just cannot have it back the way it was. Its just never the same again, whether you choose to forgive and stay, or you leave.

By: bobby

bobby — Tue, 19 May 2009 00:20:17 +0000

Dead on Tina and for the first time I can clearly see the different reasons!

The Agenda-Can’t agree more and I’ve always said this also.

It Was “Her” Fault-this amazes me and helps me to remember that society and mindset have a way to go yet.

Making Him Pay-I’m not big on revenge and I don’t think this will help repair a marriage, but continue to disintegrate it.

Men Will Be Men-I understand the biology behind this, but when all is said and done, it’s non-sense!

Shoulder The Blame-this is just the wrong approach in my view.

Share the Blame-this one makes the most sense to me if there is to be a repair/rebuilding of a relationship.

I’m still studying “Cheating” so I’m not fully at a complete consensus yet. Although this post helped bring me a bit closer

By: Tina

Tina — Mon, 18 May 2009 09:41:44 +0000

good read. i never though about it like that before for others, although like yourself i wouldnt be able to forgive a cheater either!

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By: Woman

Woman — Sun, 17 May 2009 09:19:42 +0000

One author said that the violated spouse of an adulterer has two choices: forgive and move on, or forgive and stay. To forgive a cheater is a tough decision to make. We are told to forgive and forget but it’s easier said than done.

By: K

Thu, 14 May 2009 10:59:53 +0000

For me it would really depend on the cheating.

I could forgive a one night oops a lot quicker than a emotionally charged year long affair.

Really, I just hope I never have to answer this question my life.

By: jessica

jessica — Thu, 14 May 2009 03:13:19 +0000

the ONE thing that did not go wrong in my marriage was infidelity. Yay me.

By: Nelia

Nelia — Thu, 14 May 2009 00:01:17 +0000

That’s what I love about this blog, Advice Maven. You don’t skirt the difficult issues. And you always take a stand.

Hank and I are in a monogamous, committed relationship. But for those that are in an open, committed relationship, I wonder what commitment, if any, would be considered a deal breaker equivalent to cheating.

I’m curious as to whether couples in an open committed relationship draw any lines in the sand that can’t be crossed under any circumstances. And why do we, couples in a monogamous relationship, assign more weight to the commitment of fidelity as compared to other commitments we make.

(And Hank, my musings aren’t an invitation to test that commitment!)

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