March 9th, 2010
Over the course of my blogging, moderating and membership to many dating/pen pal sites, I’ve come across a theme, a structure that keeps seeping it’s way into the advice I give to others. It seems that all the problems, or at least a good portion of problems that couples have, are not new in the scheme of relationships. (read more)
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March 7th, 2010
If your relationship is in trouble, then fixing it has not been a priority. It’s tucked somewhere in between your work, rest, home life, hobbies and other stuff going on in your life. That is also true for a diet plan, not working, or anything else not being resolved, because you are not giving it your undivided attention. Your excuses will come thick and fast “I’ll see how the relationship works out when we go on holiday.” (read more)
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March 3rd, 2010
William Shakespeare said to give sorrow words for “the grief that does not speak whispers the o’er-fraught heart and bids it break.” In short, express your heartache otherwise your heart will not heal.
After a breakup you may cry for a while and then try to “stiff upper lip” it or go out and find a new love long before you are ready. (read more)
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February 26th, 2010
Women are settling for dumb relationships everyday. Bright, smart, competent women are living in emotionally cold marriages that are filled with sarcasm, contempt, betrayal, addiction, and even rage.
Why are they settling? Because of fear, stress, their children, and a lack of belief that things can be better.
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February 25th, 2010
In a break-up the individual gets custody of oneself. Perhaps this is the first time as an adult that one is alone. As daunting as that can be, it is also an opportunity to develop a relationship with oneself.
Discovering what your preferences are and exploring a variety of interests assist the learning of who you are.
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February 21st, 2010
53% of all married women describe their relationships with their mothers in law as obligatory, cordial but nothing more, reporting a mix of both anxiety and tension. Here is a small parable to illustrate this point, and a philosophy to adopt to make a shift in the paradigm.
Story of a Daughter-in-law, Li Li
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February 18th, 2010
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Is there a linkage between food and libido? Is there such a thing as a Viagra salad? Will changing my shopping habits increase my likelihood of getting lucky? Read on for some straight answers to these tough questions.
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February 16th, 2010
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
When you’re looking at the choice to divorce, forget all about the idea of the romantic fairy tale. It’s time to take a good look at marriage and understand what it really takes to make this type of partnership work.
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February 11th, 2010
With the arrival of February, reminders that Valentine’s Day is nearly here are everywhere. Red hearts on store windows, greeting cards, chocolates, flowers, lingerie; all are themed for lovers.
February 14th is difficult for many singles.
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February 9th, 2010
1) How many ways do I love thee? Let me count the ways. Pick at least three qualities about your partner that you love. Gift each one of these with something special. For example, give her a CD by her favorite recording artist in celebration of whatever you consider to be her (or his) most appealing facial feature. Choose a clothing accessory that includes the color that you think best flatters your partner and celebrate the way they look in that color. (read more)
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Over the course of my blogging, moderating and membership to many dating/pen pal sites, I’ve come across a theme, a structure that keeps seeping it’s way into the advice I give to others. It seems that all the problems, or at least a good portion of problems that couples have, are not new in the scheme of relationships. (read more)
