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      <title>That's not me</title>
      <description>We've been dating for around 3 years, and we've put off marriage because he may want kids and I'm pretty sure I don't.  Not 100% sure, but mostly sure.  If I haven't felt motherhood calling out to me by age 33, I'm thinking I'm just not the mom type.  His best friend, the sworn bachelor, just got engaged to a really sweet girl (I call her a girl because she's 22 and he's 35.) All of the sudden all these qualities that this girl has are so appealing to my boyfriend.  She wants to be a full time mom, loves to cook and says she wants to fill their house with children.  My boyfriend would have laughed at all this a year or two ago, but now he's saying that maybe we should rethink if I really want to be a VP at work and if maybe I could be happy being not only a mom, but a stay at home mom.  I'm stunned.  Maybe I'll come around to the mom part, but I'm an order take-out, send the laundry out to be done and bring in the cleaning lady twice a month kind of woman.  I'd go buggy staying home, and I'd be terrible at it.  I'm not that type of woman, so if he doesn't snap out of this I'm afraid it's the beginning of the end.</description>
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